What We Don’t See From Across the Room

What We Don’t See From Across the Room

Sometimes, the most important thing in a customer meeting isn’t what is being presented. It’s what isn’t being said.

I once sat in the back of a room watching a customer during a product demo. Something felt off, but I couldn’t understand why. Then, over lunch, an unexpected conversation about one of my favorite guitar players changed everything.

What I discovered had little to do with music—and everything to do with seeing the person behind the role.

Sometimes, the things we need to understand are hiding in plain sight. Learn more inside.

The Things We Used to Discover by Accident.

The Things We Used to Discover by Accident.

As a student, I could spend hours in a library without knowing exactly what I was looking for. Later, I spent afternoons at Barnes & Noble with friends, coffee on the table and books around us, where conversations about a book often became conversations about life. On airplanes, a simple request for the sports or business section of a newspaper could turn into a conversation with a stranger. Looking back, I realize how much of discovery—and connection—came from things we encountered by accident.

Today, AI can give us answers in seconds. It can summarize, explain, translate, and connect an extraordinary amount of information. But as knowledge becomes increasingly digital, personalized, and invisible, I find myself wondering what happens to the things we don’t go looking for: the unexpected book, the conflicting perspective, the stranger’s conversation, or the question we never thought to ask. Learn more inside.

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